Optimistic

Happiness & Relax : Optimistic : By.Michael.R : on 22 April 2011
Living in a busy world, this How to live happily, you must be a person with mental health and strength. As people see the world in terms of good will allow you to live well in society. It is simply how people create their own look optimistic as follows:

1. To know yourself and know that you have strengths and weaknesses that the Review was unable to overcome error in your life. And looking back, that should improve your weaknesses anywhere. If you see an improvement, then the blind, for example, if you're a person does not speak. But what should be a good psychological adjustment was invited to speak softly to hear, you can get more cooperation from people around you. Or, if you're impatient, easily irritated. Working with an expression that does not shine I do not like gentlemen. It should be fine for edgy impatience. See the mood of the moment, if we start to worry, they should find a way to stop me. It can be 1-10 or with feet off the event, which starts with an expression of frustration, etc. The cold is more acceptable to my colleagues talk about you more knowledge to understand each other well. The strength or a good thing you have to maintain and make it more strength.

2. Choose a good look, but optimistic. The life of this world. When you are unlucky Disappointment for what you want to think that what happens there is something bad is always bad. This will exacerbate self-pity and self. And live with the pain of this desperation and lack of happiness in life. You will feel that they are worthless. Probably not a good thing. Happened to you more. I want to tell you that. Although past events in your life, how to be serious. So you might think that no man in this world where I could. It is also necessary to tackle the next. Since you will have to find something bad about them. Why not stay with a conscious and look for the good things that happened to you. Stop looking at her feel useless and that they are bad. Herself as a lucky person. Self-pity and turned out to start doing something good with himself and those around you will find that nothing in this world, good or bad only. It all depends on you alone will be the catalyst of what happens in your life some

3. Or choose a close union people look at life in a positive way. Union people like how you will. Living near someone who has a good mood, to see life positively. It is able to absorb these things into your mind and remember to choose the good in terms of looking at life as a person or persons involved in the If you have a group of friends or people in the industry who feel frustrated easily impatient to feel anxious and worried about everything in life. Look at the people and events of your life is evil and evil will make you lose everything Stone absorb things. These in your mind. Living with someone with a serious effort on all aspects of life. Ploy will also be severe.

4. Do not enchant ignorant to believe in false beliefs. The belief that the bad feelings in your heart. For our beliefs. To dominate in your heart. When you are faced with events that have been told by an adult in good luck. And used in life is important. And many are worried about when the event was broadcast to the poor that the result was not until you decide to brave act did not dare do anything in life until you lose a good chance of going down.

5. Learning to use positive self-view technique. The training that you have a good image of good reliability. Apartments and in your mind, if you are concerned with the fear of stress in the heart often feels no joy in their hearts to find a quiet comfortable and close your eyes think of a picture at the time of the happiest. The best picture and store it in a day, for 5 minutes, you will feel happy and anxious.
Fear in the hearts of you will fall into.

The optimistic view is that anyone can create their own happen to be inside. Try using more in. Then it seems to me that your life is happy inside.

Dealing with anger.

Happiness & Relax : Dealing with anger. : By.Michael.R : on 21 April 2011
Stories of conflict. Daelaaebra แ ygong of assault and self and others. For the willful destruction of life intoday's society. usually comes from an emotional state known as "anger"or "anger " of the humans safeenough. Anger is one of many emotions. It happens to everyone. Three cars than anyone else know when the spleen conditions will have changed many things in the body as the heart beats strong and fast. The tension of the trunk muscles trembling in the disorder of the stomach. The body, like a higher transmission voltage.Power and ready to jump out. Some advantages that anger as we feed the people taking the hand the rage,you "often makes people feel warm do not want to be near.

If the substance is not desirable. Anger is often burned in the words of Plant Or cut another show aggressionand aggressive actions. The problems associated with other people. I do not feel friendly. Often the lack ofcare and decision-making errors can easily cause an accident. Anger is also a cause of chronic health problems such as hypertensive heart disease, stomach and headaches on a regular basis.

Causes of anger. Were the most common.

* The frustration that can not do something for the mind.
* Annoyed by environmental damage.
* does not feel close to everyday life.
* potentially harmful Privacy Policy
* Sadness fear turns to anger.
* Frustrated who feel unlucky victim or face the loss.
* Threatening feel cynical contempt and envy of others, etc..

If not controlled, can cause emotional behavior violence. Anger may be tending toward theself with injury. Or tending to another person.

How to find a way to anger.

* RNAi who are willing to feel angry. Determine what you own. There is no need to feel guilt or shame, anger.
* Determine the cause of anger. Success without partisanship or guilt that reason.
* Try to open wide and flexible thinking.
* Decided to try to solve problems creatively run

Steps that must be used to control the emotions.

conscious mind firmly to curb the peace agreements that came before excited. Or act of doing nothing. You may decide to crash. If the negotiations or to solve problems that emotionally you are asked, "is to overcome" or "to solve the problem" If the answer is to stop the negotiations to overcome them. Then find a way to brake and ideas to overcome first. Since there was no way you can win the peace.

Express their feelings and needs its own position is not aggression, not to threaten or violate the rights of others.

Finding a way to vent their anger. If you can not manage their anger. Do not be shy to discuss your feelings with people close to and understand.

If you mind telling others not to listen. May use to send out your anger on paper. Will vent some anger.

Do not keep silent anger cloud just because you will stress easily. And have patience with things. smaller and smaller circles.

Activities which help curb when you are angry.

The sport has hit at full speed, such as badminton, tennis, soccer, swimming and running, do not go to compete with others. It will be even more stressful, rather than solving Finding a way to get a holding force to properly remove the grass, digging to plant trees to help repair items vent steam. With the commendable work instead.

Relaxation techniques. Themselves as the ideal number in mind, relax the respiratory muscles. Or prayer. Surf the short term. This is to help you unwind and "concentration."

Oblivion (2)

Happiness & Relax : Oblivion (2) : By.Michael.R : on 20 April 2011
Techniques to forgive others.

Forgiveness is something that is not easy to do by accident. And you need to know about the benefits of sanctions forgive. Of anything good to forgive and seek other offline, follow the instructions below.

1. Be yourself immune to the more ready to forgive people more easily. And people are less angry because I knew that if the anger is not good, then how should know that forgiveness is difficult, but we have very good immune system, calling for humility. The sacred prayer every night that you respect. We give you the power of the sacred. To give you.
They can love others more.
It can make people more than others.
Forgive others even more.
And he asked to be loved by more people.
Read more from others.
Have been more forgiving of other people.
You'll be ready to forgive others and much easier to prepare mild embraced the power of what is beyond you that you respect. Fill in your mind so you have the power.
Will do what is difficult to improve.

2. Use of conscious intelligence by as much as to think that people who make us angry, it might be a bug in. This is a normal person born with disabilities in general all and inequality are not the same thing, you see the crime. And failures, he is cured. Including us, can make mistakes or disability

People with disabilities are persons with disabilities as the mouth of his favorite rap gems. The aggression against others. He will have more enemies. When he is angry, it causes a simple heart. Or high blood pressure. Or they have low immunity to it easily.

They believe in the Law of Karma. If they are bullying us. It gives us pain. Think of it as a matter of unjust act to follow-up we humbly accept more waste and do good. (In case it does not fight. But if they are against the law to follow the law if they fight, then loses shall be considered as a matter of unjust business. The good and humble acceptance more quickly.

If you do not want to fight legal and does not want to anger. I think that the results of our anger. secrete substances that come out of stress. The unhappy and physical illness, according to many. Because our hearts are willing to think, but still suffering.

If it is, and will not forgive, as we are losing. Why do you think the more I hate the most and can not do without happiness, but suffering all the time. But if I'm wrong, and forgiveness, there are winners because we are not interested. What do you do for us in the past then. We are already thinking. We are doing a great thing, and it is difficult to forgive right away.

The effect of 'error did for us that as a matter of conviction and punishment.
Rules of the Law of Karma by Muhammad.

3. To do a lot more humility, intelligence and discretion will occur even more thinking.
We set the standard itself is too high or not. Very cautious to think too much about me me Hunt me. It makes me think that he made a mistake against us. He reiterated the idea several times. So much to the discomfort of the most angry or not.

Understanding of the normal human condition, there was a defect and can accept mistakes. Defects in other people sympathetic to his offensive shortcomings and I can help. And to forgive more easily, knowing that he was suffering from a deficiency of his. He was not happy. To do evil to us, as we think.

Everything we think of anger and pain he has caused. 'S suffering is not permanent. Everything can change. As a rule of truth, that perfection is a transient Degongnegn. Not respect the idea that we suffer through a lot to alleviate the suffering Calculate the recent past to forgive or not better.
(If you think this is considered critical or Insight hour).

4. The movement of non-competition and exercise (aerobic exercise), such as jogging. To send messages of happiness and self-image, think about the pleasure of forgiving others. And to think the images themselves are not affected by others. I forgive more easily.

Forgiveness is the winner.

Once forgiven, then the phenomenon occurs as follows.

1. You are the winner, because you do not care for him.
2. You do not bind with the thorns of life. Or trauma to the heart then. And 'bad to get out eventually.
3. Endophine material happiness, he loses more in the brain. I am happier.
4. Enjoy more. Because to do something hard, but has already created. Your heart will be open to loveothers more instead of love itself. This creates the charm of his match you know. Love others as much heaNen แ offline.

We are normal people who love human love. This is because it feels warm. Security friendly Forgiveness is amasterpiece of your life offline I rapids. Because it is difficult. Reduce suffering as much. The more creativeand to elevate the human spirit to rise much. Will not try now or offline.

Oblivion (1)

Happiness & Relax : Oblivion (1) : By.Michael.R : on 19 April 2011
The truth about the pardon, which went very well. And it's good to know that they should forgive others to be. But people say forgive and mouth to speak, but my heart refuses to forgive a lot, including people who say they can not be forgiven, because the port is also very

Forgiveness is not an easy thing to make things more difficult to make money, or encouraging others bad. If anyone knows how to forgive. They are a great piece of work life. And to a happier.


And angry people are not willing to forgive.

People suffering with a doctor at the clinic I was. Angry with others and can not be forgiven. Chronic stress can cause a few steps are the physical symptoms associated with many things, and certainly not in a good mood these people often tend to be angry and upset easily.

For example:.
A woman whose husband is very angry with her husband to do good only for his relatives. But with his wife, are more severe. Short and exploitation. His wife refused to forgive. He tried to ask her husband refused to divorce his wife was seeking revenge for all the time. Does not forgive.

Another wife, who presented a case of her husband discovered that not long after the wedding. His wife has never had a boyfriend before. And he had a sexual relationship with her ex refused to forgive the hate. No erection but refuses to divorce

Another is the case, the younger son presented a strict father to him since he was young. Do not love you the same bias when they had completed this did a good job. But the angry father lost his father before Eennyrhr size. What if death is not the same spirit to burn.

People will be angry with people easily because it is interested in yourself and love more. Or the other hunting often blame others. Or put a very high standard and can easily watch the mistakes of others. Because of incompatible standards that he set out or frustrated because they thought that every human being must be perfect. This is no way they can. And the man is not ready to forgive. Or do you want to be satisfied before revenge. Or is the suspicion that the pain will be more.

Many people expect that recalls some anger with the thought of frequent or angry, take note of the event. He could not forget. Get even more angry, more and more. It can not be forgiven till I die


Forgiving someone is not a sore loser.

If we are angry because someone thought he was hurting us. We do not forgive him, just as we are the losers, because it is a winner, we will focus his time and often more I think that the suffering did not. Ourselves to more suffering. For its part, suffers or not we agree, we know that is a loser is the winner.

But if we can forgive. We do not care if he has to do with us. On it 'is the story of the past. There will soon be a winner. If you violate the law, then the legal battle.

If he does not fault the fight and be the disadvantage. I thought it was a matter of unjust act that we could do something with him before he got hurt in the past. Consequences in order to make us humble suffering, we must humbly accept the suffering. And do more good in the hope that the result of doing good, it makes our lives better. Stunt karma from them soon. For his part, that mistake with us. We suffer pain, will be the effect of the same action in the future.

Must rely on the law of Karma not have taken some creative ideas and I do not think that this point of view, will be raised by the thought that she was wrong to others and blaming others all the time. It is even more troubled.

People who do not forgive, is suffering as a wound or a thorn in the heart of life that ironically the same mind. Think of pain until it is suffering a lot. Time to think up a stump. Agonize adrenaline secretion of substances and stress is Cortizonine (not sure of the source of this lack of direct word in I) in the brain, but forgiveness and spiritual comfort. Ready to love yourself and love for others. creative thinking. Secretion of a substance in the brain Endophine happy.

Adherence to release VS

Happiness & Relax : Adherence to release VS : By.Michael.R : on
Monkey, which is considered a human ancestor, because the shape of Motion. And most importantly, close to human intelligence. Neu Anthropology and scientists often use the monkey to represent human behavior in the same way we are able to meet many of our minds from the behavior of monkeys. Or say that. "Spirit of the people as monkeys."

For example, monkeys that hate shrimp. If the dough was delivered at the time will wipe the floor with your fingers until the smell of blood flow handful of shrimp disappear until the end becomes the "pasta" to the bad times are not bad, bad shrimp " Am that large and deep wounds oeing If it is not because Kapi Kapi separately because of the particular type.

What I hate is often harmless as revenge and hatred in our hearts, we hate or speak properly, it is. Do you want to remove, including anger and fear and this is the second person is as bad as we need a lot of attention. But this is only half true. The other half, because it is attached is another thing that we must be careful not the same.

Let us come back again .... naughty monkey Chom Ling in India is because of people like noaamgeamr Aamgeb stealing fruit in the garden. The villagers are thinking how to catch monkeys using a wooden box with a lid of a small hole. Simply insert your hand into a monkey. In the case of beans, a favorite place of monkeys as bait for the day a beautiful garden, monkey nuts in the box, who dug in his hand-picked beans. But when it comes to distributing to withdraw deposits next cruise because a handful of monkeys is greater than the deposits excavated in the valley. Monkey trying to hand is not much. enough people to handle it to climb up a tree to escape empty-handed because there is no one side was the last person caught. Monkey And eeiy h not found that out just loosened his grip, only to survive. But why nut tightly. No need to let go of life in return.

There are many things that we need to dream is held firmly to the problem. Just what is the next release based on what the problem was bad, but why not favorable. Let it not worth the thousands negatively to what he likes or preferences on the basis of contact with nothing to do with the stick too tightly and eyes dim the chances of blackouts. High until a solution is not found. All problems in life, if we know something let it go, it loses some relief to many.

Often, to issue not only as a starting point of the solution times. If this is the only way out of trouble I want the truth to push something, it is next seized another pretty sure though. The monkey tried to rub paste odor removal from the hands of honor is not at hand to pull the shrimp paste smells Mad King. Again and again knowing that it was the foul smell of shrimp paste, but do not give a hand easily inhaled.

Similarly, if we are angry. I usually hate anything and pull something or someone that anyone can think of is always thoughtful. Do not let go, while not putting defeated. The more you think suffer even more. Eseietid spirit release, there will turn a pile of all the suffering, whether it be a result of separation from those they love or who are faced with what the force is not desirable. If pressed, we have no idea why we are constantly defeated, is to take to bring him. Day and night.

In many cases, the suffering did not come from if not from the stick as you let go of worrying monkey nut quite sure if people in our society, if society is the smallest of the family. If family members know how to let go. Family will be happy. Institutions. As educational institutions. If you do not have revenge and mounted in dignity, not beat each other. And in the country if those in power. The law in his hand. I did not stick with the report. It would not be corruption. People will be happy. We will live up to leave before seeing the place. Success in our society is offline home or not. If we do not help us, I think that would certainly not be able to see offline.

True happiness.

Happiness & Relax : True happiness. : By.Michael.R : on
I have read stories of the past. There are about that. A teacher, you draw a straight line. Then tell students to try to do this without erasing the lines shorter. Students find a way to make the lines shorter, because everyone does not live with the negative image of the original line to the left so that the line was reduced a. Then ask your teacher for a student to write the new lines that are the original lines. After students draw straight lines that are longer than the original and new. The teachers explain to students that you listen to this.

"The people draw the line is straight. If a line is drawn for how long. We can make the line shorter by the we do not need to delete a line of others to fall But we can make people more about where to draw the line with our most long. The more we drag out much longer line was drawn by me, will be shorter. Like that of someone doing something good for success. We should not envy the Rich Sa frustrated because our mind, and find a way to harass the person, finding the break. The same as trying to delete a line of others to decrease the reverse should be pleased with the success of others. If we look at the length of a line drawn in others. We seek to develop themselves as better and more directed to try to draw new lines for longer and without a line to remove the others. We drag the line is longer and longer. The line is drawn that there will be shorter, and so we do not have to remove more short. "

Creative thinking like this makes our hearts airy frustrated because we feel that we are not competing with anybody, but we have to compete with our over the years and we do not have to create an enemy or to cause to move people. Against another, competition between them as complementary to each other in the overall system is growing all the time in a way that is positive. No matter if you win and all that remains important to try to beat themselves over the years separately. Just when you can win a. The victory would be meaningful and make you proud And if you do not stop their continuous development. You beat and so on. When you look back to when you will always have the pride of a clean victory. The victory is the driving force that is trying to develop better and more.

The success in the life of the individual are in many ways. Sometimes, people try to imitate the path of success than others. When you walk along the back was not successful Neu. Success in life people would not necessarily have the same variation is the path to success is not necessarily always the same route. The important thing is that pleasures have chosen the path that best suits their most

Do not try to imitate the path to the happiness of others. Why do people define happiness in different ways. We are happy to see other people are happy together. If we are in a position that we would not be happy, as we understand it now. Happiness and suffering that our hearts are truly set separately. Try to look at everything. In the middle I do not love, greed, anger, struck the overwhelming bias and then one day you can discover the meaning of true happiness for ourselves.